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Alrighty, if you've got a Bible this morning, or are we almost afternoon, would

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you turn to Genesis 35? We've been looking at the this this life of this

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dude named Jacob, aka Israel, and that's very significant, that name change, and

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what we're seeing today, I don't know if you guys saw it this this week, but

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yesterday or the day before Amir Tsarfati gave an update on what is next

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for Israel, and if you have not seen that, I encourage you to go and look at it.

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It's actually quite powerful what God has planned for this people, for

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his people, and the Bible says you and I are grafted in as believers in the Lord

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Jesus Christ, that we have been born again, we have been rescued for a purpose

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and a plan, and God is going to work that plan if you and I let him, so I

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pray that that's your heart, and so we left off in verse 15

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where Jacob was back at Bethel, and he poured a drink offering, and he poured

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oil, and we talked about that oil being a type of the Holy Spirit,

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that Jacob's name has been changed from that conniving, sneaking, rotten rat

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that he was, to this prince with God is what Israel means, or some have said

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governed by God, but the fact is, is Jacob came to the end of himself, have you

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come to the end of yourself today? I entitled this message "Life Goes On" when

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you come to the end of yourself, and you come to Christ, and the Lord opens these

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new doors and gives you new eyes, my friend and I were talking about that

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this week, just how you see things once you're born again. I left off last week

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sharing out of John and just Jesus's instruction to the very religious

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fellow named Nicodemus, so you must be born again, and God gives you a new set

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of eyes, you can just see things that you've never seen before, you can see the

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lies and the darkness and the fiery darts of the evil one, and if you

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can't see that and you've been blinded, the Bible says that's

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Satan's ploy, is to keep people in the dark of what's going on, what's going on

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in the world, what's going on around you. I've got a squeak up here that is

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driving me absolutely crazy, I can't even shift my weight without it sounding like

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an inappropriate sound. But the Lord's working and life does go on, and

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that just because you come to Christ, just because you're born again, it

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doesn't mean that life gets easier, right? We just simply have our eyes open, and

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actually, it's about the only difference is, is now you know when to duck, right?

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You can see it coming, and so the Lord, he definitely shines his light on

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us, and that's what's going on in Jacob's life, but because life goes on, we're

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gonna pick it up in verse 16, we'll read through verse 21, I know it's

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an odd place to stop, but we'll do it. "Then they journeyed from Beth-El," so

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now they leave Beth-El, which is house of God, "and when there was but a little

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distance to go to Ephrathath, Rachel labored in childbirth, and she had hard

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labor. Now it came to pass when she saw, when she was in hard labor, that the

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midwife said to her, 'Do not fear, you will have this son also.' And so it was as her

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soul was departing, for she died, that she called his name Ben-Oni, but his father

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called him Benjamin. And so Rachel died and was buried on the way to Ephrathath,"

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which is Bethlehem, "and Jacob set a pillar on her grave," which is the pillar of

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Rachel's grave to this day, "and then Israel journeyed and pitched his tent

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beyond the tower of Edor, and it happened when Israel dwelt in the land that

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Reuben went and lay with Bilhah, his father's concubine, and Israel heard

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about it." Weird, let's pray. Lord thank you for your Word and we just we know

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that there's always nuggets to glean when we read about the the life and the

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death of the people throughout Scripture. Lord that they're just like us and they

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have trouble just like us and that they're gonna face death just like us

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unless you tarry or unless your coming is is soon and some of us it needs to be

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sooner than others. And so Lord we just praise you that you you are coming and

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we have that future and that hope and Lord that you would truly just help us

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to absorb some nuggets out of the truth of your word Lord in these chapters 35

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and 36 here in the book of Genesis. And God we we just thank you thank you that

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you you don't leave us as orphans Lord but you give us away and you make a way

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for us and you've done that through the Lord Jesus and it's in your name Lord

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Jesus we pray, amen. So so they they pack up and they're journeying and the only

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reason I think why they're packing up and they're gonna make a 30 mile

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trek to the south and simply to go see Jacob's Papa. We know is Isaac or Israel's

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Papa as he's called now and and they so they're on this journey and they're

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heading south and about 15 miles in Rachel goes into labor now they're

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obviously quite a bit older his oldest boys are probably in their 20s at this

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time this may be what they what they consider a geriatric pregnancy. Have you

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heard of those? Was it past 35 Susan? Past 35 years old if you get pregnant

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it's a geriatric pregnancy. I thought that was interesting because my

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daughter was 35 when she had her baby I said geriatric I thought that only

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applied to me. But we don't know if that was the case obviously there seems to be

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a little less tension about pregnancies and having babies as before you know

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they were flipping coins and passing chicks around to Jacob to get as many

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babies as they could and it was it was a it was quite the soap opera as the

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stomach turns. There doesn't seem to be this catty wild competition among the

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women or the sisters at this point you know and so they're kind of settled in I

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think and and and she's pregnant and some think that Rachel believed that she

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would get pregnant again simply because of what she named her first son his

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name was? Who was her first Rachel's first son? Bible trivia Joseph right it

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means adding that she you know remember back way back when she she chastised

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Jacob give me children lest I die right and she was he was she was beside

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herself and he gets mad at her am I in the place of God I'm not in control of

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the womb that's God's deal and that is God's deal we see it throughout

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Scripture God's the one who allows those little ones to be conceived and so I

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know a lot of women say God why did you do this but he does it and and where to

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live with it and and so Rachel's heart no doubt was settled so having this

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second baby was just kind of icing on the cake for her now she's having this

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baby but her labor is hard and her midwife encourages her sure enough

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Rachel dies which probably was fairly common back then you know you had any

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kind of a hemorrhage and and you know couldn't get into an emergency room or

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whatever that that that happened quite often I was talking to a friend of mine

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the other day and she her daughter had twins and she was the way her body was

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she was gonna you know have multiple eggs at the same time out that she was

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you know she could even have triplets she had two sets of twins and she went

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in to get this procedure done while she was pregnant with the second set and her

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heart was so for her children that she said save my babies if it comes down to

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me or the babies you save my babies and let me go and I just thought that's an

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awesome heart that's a that's a unfeigned sacrificial love right and and

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so often today we we don't see that and so she's encouraged by her she goes hey

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you're gonna have you're gonna have this little boy and so as Benjamin is born

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and her life is is fading away in her departing last words actually is he's

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son of my sorrow think about that her whole life there for a while was about

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having a baby that was her whole life she thought that that would satisfy her

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and yet at the end of her life when she's having her second son what does

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she say son of my sorrow son of my sorrow this kind of goes along with what

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what Moses was talking about in in Psalm chapter 90 we read it at funerals often

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we quote it to ourselves if we have any desire for wisdom it says this and and

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Psalm chapter 90 in verse 9 it says for all our days have passed away in your

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wrath speaking of God we finish our years like a sigh the days of our lives

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are 70 years and if by reason of strength they are 80 years yet their

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boast is only labor and sorrow for it is soon cut off and we fly away who knows

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the power of your anger for as the fear of you so is your wrath so teach us to

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number our days that we may gain a heart of wisdom is that your heart because the

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fact is is this life is full of sorrow and it notice the psalmist says it

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doesn't matter how long you live you think you can grow out of sorrow sorry

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haven't you noticed as your hair starts getting gray the more and more funerals

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that you go to you know and people complain about it well only time we get

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to see each other is in funerals well at least we get to see each other and I

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tell people you just you know you just the older you get it kind of spins up

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you go to more funerals more funerals and preaching there you are you're at

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your own but at this point who's Rachel thinking about herself she really is

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thinking this is son of my sorrow well think about the poor kid he's got to

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live with this name are you there sorrow how you doing there you little budger

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right so praise God Jacob in his in his is his wisdom he so no no no no no no

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no we're not gonna go there he's not gonna be son of sorrow he's gonna be son

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of my right hand right some of the Benjamins that I know that when they

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what they know what this name means I got a little spring in their step they

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got a little puff in their chest yeah son of the right hand right much

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different what's your name Ben who awning son of sorrow so and and

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throughout scripture we see that the right hand is is that sign of strength

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this idea is expressed in an Exodus chapter 15 6 it says your right hand Oh

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Lord has become glorious in power your right hand Oh Lord has dashed the

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enemies in pieces the Lord is our strength in honor and and that's that's

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maybe the mindset that the Israel has here as he names Benjamin Psalm 16 8

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says I have set the Lord always before me because he is at my right hand I shall

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not be moved sometimes it's in the death of a loved one right that causes us to

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put the Lord always before me a lot of times it's we we kind of are coasting

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through life things are going good and then somebody dies maybe unexpectedly

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not even unexpectedly a lot of times a parent passes away isn't it amazing how

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you just have this sense even siblings you know I've lost a sibling and a parent

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and it's like a chapter of your life closes it's different life's different

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without that person in your life and and Israel is is experiencing this right he

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he loses we had Deborah the handmaid of Rebecca dying and and earlier in this

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chapter and now Rachel's passing away and and so the pages in Israel's life

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are turning but what does that cause you to do it's that cause you to draw near

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to the Lord it causes me to draw near Lord because I want to see them again

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right like I it was it was about a year ago and I was kind of just contemplating

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all the people who have gone on you know when you when you stop and you start

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looking back thinking wow how many people I look at my prayer list and how

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many people I've crossed off you mean you don't pray for your loved ones after

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they're gone no they're with Jesus they don't need my prayers right or like the

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first grader said prayer don't work when you're dead but I'm thinking holy cow

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look at all these people they're gone they're not here anymore and and but I

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I can't wait to see them and we're gonna see that here in a minute talk about

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being gathered to your people kind of looking forward to being gathered to my

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people because I'm starting to forget names here but when I when I get there I

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won't forget I'll know I'll know I got a fact I almost know as many people there

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as I do here now and at this stage in my life and and so he gives him this name

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and no doubt it it it changes this this guy's life Benjamin eventually he is the

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only warriors that we hear talked about in the Bible that are ambidextrous

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they're they could shoot a bow and chuck a stone with a sling either left or

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right-handed with the same amount of accuracy can you do that have you tried

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writing your name with your opposite hand that's pretty it's almost

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unlegible and among what other things trying to do with your opposite hand is

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is crazy but but God blesses Benjamin and in Israel sees the importance of

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this name the son of my right hand and and so they they bury Rachel their

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effort that if wrath it means fruitful and Bethlehem means bread so this was

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just the name before we see throughout history the names of places get changed

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right and so here this was a fruitful house of bread now it's interesting that

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it probably would have Bethlehem would have only been known for the the death

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of Rachel it would have only been known for death except for that's where the

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Prince of Life was born right so when you and I hear Bethlehem today what do

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you think of the coming of Jesus right the first advent of Christ Jesus pretty

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interesting stuff and yet Jesus comes think about it with me the Bible speaks

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so loud sometimes in the most seemingly insignificant places so here's Rachel

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they bury her there at Bethlehem and it's known for her death and her grave

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spot and yet here comes Jesus the Savior of the world and what does he come to do

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he comes to conquer death and the grave he comes to conquer it and bring

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attention to not death but to life and so they load up they move a little

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further to the south and then out of the blue it tells us about some hanky-panky

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going on with his oldest boy and one of his concubines that's what I love about

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the Bible it doesn't cover anything up it just tells it like it is now we don't

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know what went on here was it because Bill ha it was Rachel's handmade so we

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don't really know what it was he trying to comfort her was she really upset that

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Rachel had died and obviously maybe Jacob hadn't been with her and sometimes

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maybe she wanted her relationship with Jacob to be more now that Rachel is gone

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who knows in the human heart when you add the the human factor and the the

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desperately wicked heart and no no telling what's going on here but it seems

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that it was consensual it wasn't like he raped her or anything but it was very

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condemnable it was a vile thing for him to do where it says there and in verse

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22 it says and it happened when Israel dwelt in the land that Reuben went and

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lay with Bilhah his father's concubine and Israel heard about it and so this

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boy who was the firstborn right so he would have had all the benefits that

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Israel had as he swiped him from Esau that Reuben would have had all these all

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these benefits of being the firstborn and yet he defiles his father's bed and

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this was condemnable you know it was it wasn't normal he probably even in that

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culture and and and definitely when Moses comes and he receives the law this

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would be considered adultery which would been condemnable by death anybody here

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have received the death sentence in your life my hands up I was an adulterer God

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should have killed me but but he doesn't he knows about it that's all it says and

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and maybe I don't know maybe Reuben really thought that he was you know

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Israel was getting close to the grave and he's like this is my opportunity to

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act and to usurp the authority of the family we don't know we don't know why

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it happened whatever the case this axe was was extremely extremely vile and so

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first it was punishable by by death secondly by doing what he did you you

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surfing the position of the head of the family it's it's the same heart as the

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prodigal that we see in Luke chapter 15 you remember the prodigal that comes to

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his father's say hey dad give me what I got coming what they would never get

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unless their father had died right they wouldn't get the inheritance out till

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after the father is gone so what are you saying basically is dad I wish you were

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dead give me what I got coming to me and that's kind of that the attitude that is

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it is here thirdly it costs Reuben his firstborn status and first Chronicles

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chapter 5 verses 1 through 2 it says now the sons of Reuben the firstborn of

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Israel he was indeed the firstborn but because he defiled his father's bed his

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birthright was given to the sons of Joseph and the son this the son of

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Israel so that the genealogy is not listed according to the birthright yet

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Judah prevailed over his brothers and from him came a ruler all old although

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the birthright was Joseph's right there's another place in the Psalm where

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it actually should have been Ephraim and every time a firstborn would get into a

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lifestyle of sin it cost them spiritually right it cost them so it is

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with us folks we get into sin spiritually in other words we're not

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right with God on that spiritual plane where we're we're having koinonia and an

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intimacy with the God who created us you can get in trouble really fast and you

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can forfeit a lot of stuff in your life and as I look back even at my own life

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and and some of the things I've forfeited and some of the things my

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parents forfeited simply because of sin right my dad lost a lot of authority

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with us kids when he committed adultery on my mother right how dare him say

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anything to us about sin my mother because she saw her hellion sons mainly

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Rick and Scotty Brown living like monsters would try to check us on our

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sin and we'd throw it right back in her face because of her sinful lifestyle she

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had no authority with us we're getting you're gonna talk to us and then we

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tried talking to her about your sin and she's looking at me like you little

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wicked suckers you're gonna talk to me about my sin what about yours you see

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how that that works it just you you actually disqualify yourself from

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speaking anything into anybody because of how sinful we've all been and maybe

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Jacob it said he knew about it but he didn't say anything about it maybe

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because he knew in his own life he says there's just things in my own life that

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weren't right how can I and that's not right either when God calls you and he

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redeems you and he washes you clean you should be able to speak truth to people

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even if it's convicting sharing the truth and love the Bible tells us right

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when Jacob is is giving his blessing there in Genesis chapter 49 he talks

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about Reuben he says you are my firstborn my might in the beginning of

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my strength the excellency of dignity and the excellency of power unstable as

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water you shall not excel because you went up to your father's bed you defiled

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it you went up to my couch he disqualified himself what's been

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disqualified from now God can come along and restore stuff but I think that it

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should cause us to walk in humility knowing where we've all fallen short of

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God's glory and that's why the Bible says that we should speak the truth and

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love why because we've been there you've blown it you've sinned I've sinned and

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so when we speak truth to each other don't do it with the hoity-toity holier

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than thou attitude because the fact is is we've all we've all been there we've

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all blown it we've all had the three fingers pointing back at us when we

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point the finger at somebody verse 23 he transitions here in verse 23 and says

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now the sons of Jacob were 12 the sons of Leah were Reuben Jacob's firstborn and

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Simeon Levi Judah is a car Zebulun the sons of Rachel or Joseph and Benjamin

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the sons of Bilhah Rachel's maidservant were Dan and Naphtali that would have

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been weird right your older brother was messing with your mom I don't know that

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it gets it gets pretty really funky and the sons of Zilpah was Leah's maidservant

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were Gad and Asher these were the sons of Jacob who were born to him at

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Paderon and so just listen that's their their it's not their birth order it's a

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birth order from their mothers but not their literal birth order and so then he

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it goes on and I think this was the point of their trip in verse 27 then

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Jacob came to his father Isaac at Mamre of Kerjath Arba which is Hebron where

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Abraham and Isaac had dwelt now the days of Isaac were 180 years so Isaac

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breathed his last and died and was gathered to his people being old and

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full of days and his sons Esau and Jacob buried him. Isaac he had a long life he

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lived longer than Abraham a hundred and eighty years and so they come together

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Esau and and Israel and they they have a funeral service for their dad there at

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Hebron and we know that this is the main burying place for the patriarchs. Leah is

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gonna be buried here Jacob will be brought back there and and Isaac

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breathes his last maybe this was his last-ditch effort to get to his dad and

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maybe have all the kids maybe all these boys know who their grandpa was. I don't

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know if you have a as a grandfather if you have a relationship with your

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grandkids or not but that's a pretty sweet thing and I don't know what it is

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about grandkids why is it that they don't seem to be as big as sinners as

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your kids? You know it's just it's just kind of bizarre I think the Lord gives

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us as a partial blindness when it comes to our grandkids and um but but being

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able to see the old patriarch there before he passed away I'm sure maybe

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maybe inspired some of those boys to do what God had called them to do because

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it's obvious that obvious that God had a plan for these twelve boys who are

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eventually the twelve tribes of Israel who are gonna come back and reign

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through the millennial reign of Christ. There's 144,000 you hear about it some

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some religious groups think they're the 144,000 right? Well no you have to have

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Jewish DNA in your bloodstream to be one of these and it was very specific what

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tribes they're from and so God's gonna do this and they're gonna be preaching

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machines they're gonna be Jews who are sharing the gospel and these guys are

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the people that God uses to bring them into the world. Maybe you've forfeited

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some of your life but maybe you got generations under you maybe kids

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grandkids that you can speak truth into and be an influence that way be an

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influence for the future to the future generations that love you and are not

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mad at you you about in all the places that you've sinned in your life. I look

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at my grandkids and I know their their view of me is much different than what's

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true. My kids have a little closer feel for what I really am but when they don't

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see all of that failure a lot of times they're a lot quicker to hear and so

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they end up at Hebron they do the funeral and then we jump into chapter 36

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where God is completing and fulfilling his his his plan and promise to this

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dude named Esau. God has a plan for Esau you say yeah but he don't love God in

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fact God hates him God hates him in the spiritual realm yes but God keeps his

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promise that he's gonna be a nation you remember when Rebecca came to the Lord

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and said what if everything's so good then what abouts going on in here and

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the Lord told him he says inside of you are two nations and they're wrestling

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they're fighting and it was Israel and Edom it was Jacob and Esau were

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fighting in the womb and God's gonna make sure what he told Rebecca was true

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Esau is gonna become a nation and we see when when Jacob meets Esau what does he

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say he gives him goods he says I got enough man in other words God's blessed

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me he's he's I've got enough in my life and it says there in chapter 36 verse

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one now this is the genealogy of Esau who is Edom Esau took his wives from the

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daughters of Canaan Adah the daughter of Elan the Hiltite and a whole Obama

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sounds like it vice president the daughter of Anna the daughter of Zibeon

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the Hivite notice though these are Canaanite people these are people they

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shouldn't have married and Basamoth the Ishmael's daughter remember he was

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trying to get close to his Lord to his father when he when he married Ishmael's

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daughter sister of Mehroj Nebeljoth and Adah bore Eliphaz and to Esau and

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Basamoth bore Reul and a whole Obama bore Jehosh and Jalam and Korah and these

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were the sons of Esau who were born to him in the land of Canaan so Esau has

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sons he has three wives he has five boys and and as you go down through there you

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see God's blessing is all over this guy God blesses Esau right and and and this

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this this 36 I'm not gonna go through the whole chapter but we're gonna try to

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condense it here and and before we say amen but but notice is it contains a

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whole bunch of names and it's truly the story of Esau Esau and we don't see him

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much after this today it's that it's the place called Jordan is where the Edomites

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dwelt and most believe that they inhabited actually the rock city Petra

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and some think that that's where the Jews are actually gonna be hidden during

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the tribulation period but but that's where they were and they they were an

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enemy they fought with Israel not only that but as you read down through there

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you'll see that's where the Amalekites came through from the Amalekites was was

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though those group when they were coming through the wilderness going to the

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promised land they attacked him from behind and slaughtered the women and

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children these were descendants of Esau proving their hatred for God now I I

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really think you know so we see here let me get to this real quick Esau so he

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became a nation which is Edom he had five sons had multiple grandsons there

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are 11 Chiefs that we see in this chapter there are eight kings that come

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from Esau you think of that scripture that God reigns on the just in the

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unjust God was gonna keep his promise he's gonna bless this guy remember he

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and Jacob ended up giving him more more lifestyle Esau was would have been a

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likable guy he would have fit well in Idaho Esau would have he would have been

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a guy that that we liked man he probably had a pickup and a horse trailer a lot

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of livestock cute Copenhagen tifties hat to women I don't know so when it says

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that God hated Esau it doesn't mean that God hated every part of his life because

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God blessed his life God displayed grace towards Esau is that you have you been

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blessed God's blessed your life I know there are a lot of people and I would

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call them good old boys they are on a highway to hell right but their life's

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been blessed it's like God's saying I know you're not gonna ever turn your

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heart to me and you're never gonna become mine and so I'm gonna let you

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have as good as it gets and that's this life get what you can get buy what all

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you can buy right pour around all you want whatever it is that makes you happy

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go for it because that's all you get now I don't about you but I'm with the the

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writer of Proverbs that says I would rather have a crust of bread with peace

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than a fatted calf with strife right speaking of the torments that are gonna

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come after this life when everyone stands before God God blessed this man

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abundantly Esau was just not going to have anything to do with God period

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nothing I know there's probably some men sitting in this room the only reason you

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come and plop your hind end down in one of these chairs is because your wife

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drags you right you just been hand packed out okay well anyway I'm gonna

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shut her up is go to church right can I just tell you that's not the right

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attitude right but to love though your Lord your God when they come to Jesus

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and they ask him that infamous question what is the greatest commandment love

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the Lord your God with all your heart with all your soul with all your mind

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and with all your strength and can I say and then just sit back and watch what

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happens talk about yee-haw right you better screw your hat down tight because

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it is a ride and that's what God hates is somebody who is not willing to love

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him he wants to come wants us to come and taste and see that is good that he

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is good he and he really is if you haven't made that decision please make

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it I wonder if Jesus had Esau in mind when he spoke these words in Matthew

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chapter 5 verse 44 it says but I say to you love your enemies bless those who

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curse you do good to those who hate you remember Jacob gave him all that

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livestock what was he saw doing to him 20 years earlier he was cursing him he

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was hating him he was he was killing him in his heart do good to those who hate

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you and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you one of Jacob's

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praying for Esau and sends rain on the unjust the just and the unjust for if

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you love those who love you what reward have you do not even the tax collectors

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do the same see God has called us to be so different from the world the contrast

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between Israel and Esau is is striking what's the contrast between your life

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and and the worldly people in your life is there contrast I got buddies listen I

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was III was just you know I was on that highway you know in my early 20s and and

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I remember the guys I hung with you know and and how vile we were the things we

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did and and I look at some of them now and they're they're you know 59 60 61

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years old and I'm thinking you ain't changed a bit because the the difference

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is is when you're born again it's like the Lord gives you a new life but when

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you're still in that old life that's all you know see I know both lights I knew

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what it was like to be whiskey drunk and just in trouble and and doing hideous

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deeds right I remember what that was like but now God has called me and

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removed me from that and I'm going wow that was and I spent a long time now but

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I haven't forgot I'm a got forgot what I've been delivered from but the

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contrast in these two boys between Israel and Esau it's spiritual because on the

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outside yeah you may not tell a whole lot of difference but on the inside and

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the fact that Israel loves God and he honors God and he gives praise to God

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and he worships God that's the difference you know when I was at the

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school you know we were always trying to compete right with the public schools or

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that especially when the when the Charter School started coming in right

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and you know everyone's always saying we got we got to be different how can we be

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different when we got a bunch of these little stinking sinners in this building

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right how can we be any different right and then us all our staff members we're

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sinners too the only difference is Jesus that is the only difference that's that

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was it the only difference was we had lives that had been touched by Jesus and

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then we tried to share that with the kids some of them get it some of them

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don't right I see some kids in this room but I knew when they as little bitty

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guys and that makes me feel old but they get it they're here today good you know

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it just kind of does my because so often I felt like I was spinning my wheels

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what are we doing we are wasting our times it goes one ear and out the other

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these kids are you know just a bunch of little rebels right just flesh balls

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listen one person plants right the seed is the Word of God one person plants one

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person waters but God gives the increase and you have to by faith let those chips

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fall where they may whether it's in a church service like this or you home

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talking to your kids and your grandkids put the seeds and the truths of God's

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Word in their heart let the chips fall where they may they may love God they

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may not love God but far be it from you to be guilty of not telling them about

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God

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Esau refused to see how great God was right I pray that you don't refuse to

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see that because the fact that you're here today proof should prove to you

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that God is good he's got an incredible plan for your life

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amen let's pray Lord thank you for your word thank you for your people

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Lord we pray for the people of Israel right now Lord they're under attack

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they're claimed to be evil when they're not we're truly living in those days

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Lord when people are calling evil good and good evil you're the only good one

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and so I pray that you would put your goodness in our hearts Lord as we yield

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to you Lord and I know there may be some here today Lord that haven't done that

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yet Lord may you move upon their hearts Lord for them to get up out of their

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seat and come and be prayed for up here with the prayer team as they come

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forward Lord we need you in these days they're they're crazy wild days Lord

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where the it's truly as nation is rising against nation and Kingdom against

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Kingdom and mainly the kingdom of darkness against the kingdom of light

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and you've called us into this marvelous light Lord that is your kingdom so Lord

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help us to see ourselves for what we are help us to turn to you with all that we

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are Lord and for the generations coming behind us Lord give us a voice and that

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we would speak your truth to them and in your mighty and powerful love Lord that

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you would truly bring us all to a place of being world changers until you come

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Lord we know that we're staying the hand of wickedness Lord the one who restrains

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is active and alive and that is your your body in this world Lord help us to

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be full of you in Jesus Holy Name amen let's stand